Before you start to get acquainted with the girls, the first requirement - to find a decent site for dating, it has its own type. As a rule, disregard this argument at times of tragedy. On one occasion, when a young man 28 years in a state of intoxication tossed on the street behind two skirts, resulting in death under the wheels of truck. Or villager B. shithead P. John who liked the lame dyed blonde with symmetrical warts on the ears. However, never met this kind of girls not in V. bitch, nor in H. shit, he made friends with a blacksmith from the village of S. bitch, and lived with him for 34 years. All this, as well as many others, suggests that the choice should be treated thoughtfully and carefully.
The second term is a successful dating service - this place. Discovering the girls have proven in the field. With great caution should apply to statements such as "Yesterday, I met a girl in the women's restroom city crematorium number 2" or "girl of his dreams, I zapikapil in jail, when I was sitting there on a trifling matter."
Finally, the third - this is what you will attract the attention of girls, when you get acquainted. From books and movies you know such methods as cutting themselves (not to be confused with the circumcision) of various parts of the body (little finger, ears) and offering them as gifts. This, of course, is suitable as an option, but I do not recommend this method, because the fingers are not for all girls.
In an ideal - to start with a bright and memorable phrases. So get acquainted with the girls very easily. However, it is also necessary to choose wisely. Do not immediately offer the girl a cigarette. For the second case, and you can bind heavy blunt object (such as "Siberian boots") in the head (of the heart, testicles), and the first version of your question can generally go unchallenged, as an honest girl, unknown men would not take, and unsportsmanlike (if you feel an urge) itself will take.
So, approach the girl on the street to get acquainted, and, clearly turning in the hands of a banana, saying: "Girl!" You have such a small, wonderful mouth! "How do you think it will fit my banana?" Stretch banana, runs off the corner and watch her reaction. Yes:
- Yes, it will fit!
- And two?
Negative answer:
- No, not fit, you pervert!
- And you choose one that will fit!
Similarly, you can do with ice cream (the text is changed to "lick my ice cream and a chocolate"). You stand on the street, holding a bowl and whisk, and say: "Girl, give it back, please!" Yes:
- Let us, and where the soap?
- Maybe first coat off?
Negative answer:
- Idiot!
- Yes, you idiot! So?
Thus, the above phrases well suited to forced acquaintance. That is, when you and your partner on pickup know what they want. But one should remember that not everyone can adequately respond to such a fast start. Therefore, to get acquainted not always easy. A case where a young man 19 years old, came over for "Grandma, you do not know there sex-shop nearby to be", was severely beaten and retired GM 1906 Birth improvised means.
For those who very much wants to get acquainted with the girls, but a number of reasons (stuttering, nearsightedness, farsightedness, mental retardation) cannot just talk (or subtly hint at least) about sex as a means of communication, we can offer the methodology described below. Before that wants to tell the reader about a VA, born in 1975, who walked the streets and when approaching a girl took out a poster with the text "I want you!" Ask me how! ". Alas, he passed a short time, for being able to easily influence of alcohol, a little mistake and brought a poster alongside the police, taking them for a sophomore medical school number 5. Police patrol it did not specifically ask, but the poster selected and nastuchat rubber cudgel on the head. Serves him right, rightly so.
For those who want to, but not much can be said about it directly, rather innocuous (at first glance) method should recognize the conversation on the topic "Defecation and deflowering. Take a step." In this case, you can show off his erudition and smoothly, from the very trivial process of defecation approach to the process of defloration - the holiday for each normal girl. The danger here is only one - that if someone until you have talked about this girl. But even by personal example? Then get acquainted with her would not be so easy. Be careful. "Girl!" I have birthday today! "Give me his charming smile." The idea is to get behind a smile as a gift and the rest of the body. Yes:
- Hold!
- A kiss?
Negative answer:
- Will I here all kinds of goats on the street smile!
- Thank you, thank you! I was in a zoo monkey was smiling!
[How should we learn? On practical pickup - Dating Academy trainings you will learn to get to know where you want, with those with whom you want and the way you want. Under the supervision of instructors who will correct you from beginning to end, you will learn not only the seduction and success in personal life, but success in all those cases where you want to communicate, that is, in all spheres of life.]
In conclusion, the author wants to share a quote from his autobiography: "... August 16 ... 199 years, we as usual on Fridays (or Saturdays?) Went to see the glory for the bus, and Sam to trolley. A David and Sam I put on a bus and went further. On the road I met my acquaintance with her minor L. brother on a bicycle. having obtained a bicycle from a minor brother of my friend L., I went for the bus, which seemed to me, went Glory. After a while I lost my bus and equilibrium from which, and fell. I fell very sick and so long to get up, but when I got up, then went home. On the way I was brought down from the bike brand dog "spaniel", suddenly bursting out of the entrance. I fell again, with the same the person that first time. spaniel mistress, dear lady, Moscow, did me the first aid to her house, and we lived happily with her in the same two days, and then came to her parents. Then I went on the same bike home where going to get another two days ago ...
Saturday, June 16, 2012
Technique of dating
The main thing in dating technique - if possible avoid templates! Unfortunately, the vast majority of men (90%) are introduced to impropriety primitive, like this: "What is the weather, give your phone, eh?"
Women appreciate a man above all, the mind and banal beginning of "Girl, what's your name?" driving it in the corner of his straightforwardness and squalor a little ingenuity - and you are interested in vending you lady.
It is noticed that a good impression on a woman produces, when a man gives her his own, a business card. This element of business ethics, brought to the household ground meets a woman's curiosity and acts better than words.
7 styles of courtship
1. "Pigeon". We must deliberately take care of a woman in front of everybody, not paying attention to others, how to care for the dove dove. This behavior underscores the value of women and at the same time stresses your serious intentions.
2. "Short-term escape (5-7 days). After a long, active courting her stop to visit her and call her. Accustomed to a man's attention, a woman can not do without it, she will miss you, and it would reproach himself for coolness to you. Yes, and how to respond to questions venomous girlfriends about your absence? "Threw"-a shame, "chased away"-prematurely, and suddenly come back? Typically, after the return to her woman becomes much more merciful.
3. "The Friend". If it is not too much to you is, then, starting an active courtship of her girlfriend, you can dramatically change its attitude towards you. Then all her entourage talking about you and it certainly will bolster her self-esteem. She wants to show her friends that she was not worse than them, and when it is desired, you will not care for someone, but for her. Besides, she thinks: "If everyone is talking about it, then perhaps there is something there.
4. Even better, if you are able to draw her best friend, who prozhuzhzhit her about you all ears. Emotional outpourings girlfriend inflame her imagination. You will be very even indifferent to it. Realizing that goal is reached, speaking with her.
5. "Sufferer". Permanent express their suffering to people around her sympathy for their cause, reproaches against her and cause her to question her attitude to you. Rarely some tenderhearted Slavic soul will not condemn a woman for her inaccessibility. Especially this method is good when we must win the consent of the woman in marriage.
6. "Feeding". At each meeting, bring a woman flowers, or a pleasant trifle, or something delicious that she loved (sweets, cakes, etc.). Then she elaborated a conditioned reflex - a positive attitude to your presence and his expectation.
7. "Incomparable." Its essence is the same as that of the previous use, but instead of the tangible things you are giving it to their attention (her admiration, compliments, manners). Very often, it works much better subject of gifts, especially where there is material wealth, but lack of attention to the woman.
Several varieties of dating depending on the situation
Option 1
Choose a time when a woman is not very busy, and the place where you could enter into contact with it. Women are not very daring, so have her to talk with you. Check with her eye contact and give her time to bring in order of their appearance and mental attitude to your courtship. Some question, meaningless phrase and unleash it, let get used to your voice and communicate with you. Then Start a conversation about anything. Topic of conversation may be the most banal, you only need to at least say something and not to destroy the weak contact, painful silence. Speak in the manner that you can most easily (playful, rustic, tragic, meaningful ...). Complimented her appearance, and if she engaged in a conversation, and her erudition. How would the way tell her a little about yourself and discreetly let her feel your dignity. In order to awaken her maternal instinct, you cried a little - you can visit on their own difficulties. Introduce yourself, tell them your name and profession. Invite her to the theater, a concert, for a walk. In case of refusal to ask her: "And maybe see you tomorrow (in the afternoon ...)? When?" Ask her to leave you my phone number or address where you can find. When the temptation to use the categorical refusal to time - offer your ( "Well, then take me, I beg you !.."). to accompany her to the place to which it is directed. Trains come into contact as often as possible. The only way to get ease and acquaintances. Suppose that even without further acquaintance, but for the sake of training. Including people of your sex: training singles - "on a complicated program, because men are in contact much harder than women. The reward, except for training, will be and the possible introduction, and even friendships with interesting people.
Option 2
Bear with a flower. Give him one, which would like to meet. Unsubscribe from the colors a woman can not. But taking a flower, she is obliged to you for this generous and beautiful gesture. Also irresistible, this option is good in that only one of 500 men to begin acquaintance in this way. Avoid mistakes, you will appear in a favorable light. By the way, according to Freud, flowers - a symbol of the union of male and female elements. Maybe that's why women love flowers, especially if they are donated to a man?
Option 3 (acquaintance on the phone)
If you are not ready for personal acquaintance, that option - the best. After all day on the street, a woman, perhaps, will not listen to reason, a large employment, but at home, in a calm atmosphere, it will not refuse to listen, even boredom. The phone gives an excellent opportunity to overcome the psychological barrier between you. Especially if you are afraid of displeasing appearance. At the beginning of the conversation should introduce themselves and tell a little about yourself. Be sure to praise her voice "pleasant", "melodic", "like a bell", "exciting". Say that admire it from a distance, but are afraid to come, the beauty of her movements, gestures, etc. Call preferably in the evening, at the same time, when it is free. Instilling in her a conditioned reflex to your call, that it was essential to her before bedtime, like a good fairy tale children. If you can draw her a sense that you feel to it (the feeling carries any woman), then it will be very difficult to deny you a personal acquaintance, even of compassion.
Option 4 ( "Secretary")
Help women - bring to things, to repair something, etc. provides a rare opportunity to get acquainted with her. This option is almost a win. First, because they want to help someone so small that they may in the future will mummify and display in museums. She will be greatly surprised and delighted that she has got such a rare specimen. Secondly, it would be flattered that you have helped it to her. It may also happen is that you did not like her at first, but its practicality, the ability to exploit you make her suffer your presence. Your task - do not miss a moment and try to win. . If she says that it needs no help, then tell us surprise and indignation of her attitude to her precious body ( "I do not mind if you're so fragile ... and do not have to carry heavy bags ... you probably husband cares! "At the same time find out if he had it.) For women, even very strong, love to be fragile. "You can be angry with me, but I'll still help you!" Deny it to you or not - is not so important, the main thing - you join her in contact, and can only sustain a conversation.
Option 5 ( "helper")
Established that if a person is a man made a good B, then A to B begins to better treat. The psychological basis for this is: every time he saw B, A remembers the good things that he did, and aware of itself a good, kind man. This raises his self-esteem, and therefore the mood. Thus, B becomes a source of positive emotions. This phenomenon can be used for dating, organizing help themselves by an attractive man. "Girl, please do not fail, urgently need to call, and phone card is over" (or "tokens no" - in different cities in different ways). And, after talking briefly: "The tremendous thank you. Now I'm your debtor. Allow me to return to duty: when and where can I find you?" And you want in a movie or a bar that you interesting? .. Or the theater? " Even if it is not enthusiastic about such dating, do you cruelly to her conscience would not allow, because it is obliged to you. Then, already on the Rights of an old friend you can feel free to ask her to re-interview
Option 6 (public transport)
You can often hear the assertion that the psychological atmosphere of public transport does not have to acquaintance. On the contrary, it is there to do it the easiest. Subway, bus, boat ... - Places where you can easily get acquainted with the woman. Do not be afraid that your conversation someone eavesdrops on the woman that he does not become less enjoyable. If you do not dare to meet her in the transport, then go out with her at the bus stop and apply something from that, what we have already said.
Option 7 (cultural events)
Begin looking for a woman better before the event. At the counter or at the entrance to try to get in touch with the one you liked, and then act on any of the options or environment-related event. Show your generosity, try to buy souvenirs, refreshments, program, flowers - from the fact that as possible. After the presentation helped women to get dressed and accompany her to the house, exchanged phone numbers.
Option 8 (a plyazhe)
Do not be afraid to approach (sit) and speak with a woman, even if it makes an indifferent expression on his face. A lone woman on the beach is always happy to male attention, because of its isolation does not speak in its favor. Views of others should not be given importance. Other men might not mind doing the same thing, but you beat them, and women may simply jealous rival. The beach is particularly appropriate to speak about women's charms (the beauty of figure, an amazing tan, soft skin, etc.).
Warning Beach - a parade of the physical beauty of the body, both female and male. All the advantages and disadvantages of body and not hidden clothes - there. So if you have a good (and even more excellent) figure - God himself commands familiar on the beach. They help to become acquainted interesting article, which you propose to read, and exchanged views on it. Invaluable assistance can have a crossword puzzle, in fact almost all women love to solve. Women appreciate intelligence - ability to show it! Card games, ice cream treats or soft drinks. On the sand easy to play "tic-tac-toe." Any game - is a convenient way to explore. The game reveals a person as a person.
Option 9 (restaurant, cafe, anniversary ...)
Given the state of light intoxication among the visitors to such places and events, is not recommended for long ignore you like a woman. Otherwise, take her to remain without fear cavalier and excitement, involving women in such cases, another man can steal it from you from under his nose. "Brute" - the best way to heart of women in such places! Do not give her time to recover, invite to dance and express my admiration for her appearance, movements, etc. After the dance she did not offer to sit down and dance once again, stand with her in front of everybody with a satisfied air. This immediately demoralize your opponents. Be demonstrative gallantry. Flowery speech acts on its relaxed alcohol awareness of the strongest manner. Invite her (with a girlfriend) at her desk, order her champagne. Very well, if you potantsuete with her girlfriend, who can tell you about it a lot of interesting, and about myself too. With less profitable one, it is always profitable to tell the other. If at least one of her friends got carried away by you or your friend, then the evening would have been continued.
Option 10
This is when a woman just bought for money. This option is for us the most uninteresting, so will confine ourselves to the next story.
Morning. A man comes to the mirror. Views: mug blue, his hair on end, prune belly, ears, burdock, one leg shorter than the other. Looks - behind his back in bed asleep leggy beauty. The man said reflectively:
- It's necessary because the money to love ...
Women appreciate a man above all, the mind and banal beginning of "Girl, what's your name?" driving it in the corner of his straightforwardness and squalor a little ingenuity - and you are interested in vending you lady.
It is noticed that a good impression on a woman produces, when a man gives her his own, a business card. This element of business ethics, brought to the household ground meets a woman's curiosity and acts better than words.
7 styles of courtship
1. "Pigeon". We must deliberately take care of a woman in front of everybody, not paying attention to others, how to care for the dove dove. This behavior underscores the value of women and at the same time stresses your serious intentions.
2. "Short-term escape (5-7 days). After a long, active courting her stop to visit her and call her. Accustomed to a man's attention, a woman can not do without it, she will miss you, and it would reproach himself for coolness to you. Yes, and how to respond to questions venomous girlfriends about your absence? "Threw"-a shame, "chased away"-prematurely, and suddenly come back? Typically, after the return to her woman becomes much more merciful.
3. "The Friend". If it is not too much to you is, then, starting an active courtship of her girlfriend, you can dramatically change its attitude towards you. Then all her entourage talking about you and it certainly will bolster her self-esteem. She wants to show her friends that she was not worse than them, and when it is desired, you will not care for someone, but for her. Besides, she thinks: "If everyone is talking about it, then perhaps there is something there.
4. Even better, if you are able to draw her best friend, who prozhuzhzhit her about you all ears. Emotional outpourings girlfriend inflame her imagination. You will be very even indifferent to it. Realizing that goal is reached, speaking with her.
5. "Sufferer". Permanent express their suffering to people around her sympathy for their cause, reproaches against her and cause her to question her attitude to you. Rarely some tenderhearted Slavic soul will not condemn a woman for her inaccessibility. Especially this method is good when we must win the consent of the woman in marriage.
6. "Feeding". At each meeting, bring a woman flowers, or a pleasant trifle, or something delicious that she loved (sweets, cakes, etc.). Then she elaborated a conditioned reflex - a positive attitude to your presence and his expectation.
7. "Incomparable." Its essence is the same as that of the previous use, but instead of the tangible things you are giving it to their attention (her admiration, compliments, manners). Very often, it works much better subject of gifts, especially where there is material wealth, but lack of attention to the woman.
Several varieties of dating depending on the situation
Option 1
Choose a time when a woman is not very busy, and the place where you could enter into contact with it. Women are not very daring, so have her to talk with you. Check with her eye contact and give her time to bring in order of their appearance and mental attitude to your courtship. Some question, meaningless phrase and unleash it, let get used to your voice and communicate with you. Then Start a conversation about anything. Topic of conversation may be the most banal, you only need to at least say something and not to destroy the weak contact, painful silence. Speak in the manner that you can most easily (playful, rustic, tragic, meaningful ...). Complimented her appearance, and if she engaged in a conversation, and her erudition. How would the way tell her a little about yourself and discreetly let her feel your dignity. In order to awaken her maternal instinct, you cried a little - you can visit on their own difficulties. Introduce yourself, tell them your name and profession. Invite her to the theater, a concert, for a walk. In case of refusal to ask her: "And maybe see you tomorrow (in the afternoon ...)? When?" Ask her to leave you my phone number or address where you can find. When the temptation to use the categorical refusal to time - offer your ( "Well, then take me, I beg you !.."). to accompany her to the place to which it is directed. Trains come into contact as often as possible. The only way to get ease and acquaintances. Suppose that even without further acquaintance, but for the sake of training. Including people of your sex: training singles - "on a complicated program, because men are in contact much harder than women. The reward, except for training, will be and the possible introduction, and even friendships with interesting people.
Option 2
Bear with a flower. Give him one, which would like to meet. Unsubscribe from the colors a woman can not. But taking a flower, she is obliged to you for this generous and beautiful gesture. Also irresistible, this option is good in that only one of 500 men to begin acquaintance in this way. Avoid mistakes, you will appear in a favorable light. By the way, according to Freud, flowers - a symbol of the union of male and female elements. Maybe that's why women love flowers, especially if they are donated to a man?
Option 3 (acquaintance on the phone)
If you are not ready for personal acquaintance, that option - the best. After all day on the street, a woman, perhaps, will not listen to reason, a large employment, but at home, in a calm atmosphere, it will not refuse to listen, even boredom. The phone gives an excellent opportunity to overcome the psychological barrier between you. Especially if you are afraid of displeasing appearance. At the beginning of the conversation should introduce themselves and tell a little about yourself. Be sure to praise her voice "pleasant", "melodic", "like a bell", "exciting". Say that admire it from a distance, but are afraid to come, the beauty of her movements, gestures, etc. Call preferably in the evening, at the same time, when it is free. Instilling in her a conditioned reflex to your call, that it was essential to her before bedtime, like a good fairy tale children. If you can draw her a sense that you feel to it (the feeling carries any woman), then it will be very difficult to deny you a personal acquaintance, even of compassion.
Option 4 ( "Secretary")
Help women - bring to things, to repair something, etc. provides a rare opportunity to get acquainted with her. This option is almost a win. First, because they want to help someone so small that they may in the future will mummify and display in museums. She will be greatly surprised and delighted that she has got such a rare specimen. Secondly, it would be flattered that you have helped it to her. It may also happen is that you did not like her at first, but its practicality, the ability to exploit you make her suffer your presence. Your task - do not miss a moment and try to win. . If she says that it needs no help, then tell us surprise and indignation of her attitude to her precious body ( "I do not mind if you're so fragile ... and do not have to carry heavy bags ... you probably husband cares! "At the same time find out if he had it.) For women, even very strong, love to be fragile. "You can be angry with me, but I'll still help you!" Deny it to you or not - is not so important, the main thing - you join her in contact, and can only sustain a conversation.
Option 5 ( "helper")
Established that if a person is a man made a good B, then A to B begins to better treat. The psychological basis for this is: every time he saw B, A remembers the good things that he did, and aware of itself a good, kind man. This raises his self-esteem, and therefore the mood. Thus, B becomes a source of positive emotions. This phenomenon can be used for dating, organizing help themselves by an attractive man. "Girl, please do not fail, urgently need to call, and phone card is over" (or "tokens no" - in different cities in different ways). And, after talking briefly: "The tremendous thank you. Now I'm your debtor. Allow me to return to duty: when and where can I find you?" And you want in a movie or a bar that you interesting? .. Or the theater? " Even if it is not enthusiastic about such dating, do you cruelly to her conscience would not allow, because it is obliged to you. Then, already on the Rights of an old friend you can feel free to ask her to re-interview
Option 6 (public transport)
You can often hear the assertion that the psychological atmosphere of public transport does not have to acquaintance. On the contrary, it is there to do it the easiest. Subway, bus, boat ... - Places where you can easily get acquainted with the woman. Do not be afraid that your conversation someone eavesdrops on the woman that he does not become less enjoyable. If you do not dare to meet her in the transport, then go out with her at the bus stop and apply something from that, what we have already said.
Option 7 (cultural events)
Begin looking for a woman better before the event. At the counter or at the entrance to try to get in touch with the one you liked, and then act on any of the options or environment-related event. Show your generosity, try to buy souvenirs, refreshments, program, flowers - from the fact that as possible. After the presentation helped women to get dressed and accompany her to the house, exchanged phone numbers.
Option 8 (a plyazhe)
Do not be afraid to approach (sit) and speak with a woman, even if it makes an indifferent expression on his face. A lone woman on the beach is always happy to male attention, because of its isolation does not speak in its favor. Views of others should not be given importance. Other men might not mind doing the same thing, but you beat them, and women may simply jealous rival. The beach is particularly appropriate to speak about women's charms (the beauty of figure, an amazing tan, soft skin, etc.).
Warning Beach - a parade of the physical beauty of the body, both female and male. All the advantages and disadvantages of body and not hidden clothes - there. So if you have a good (and even more excellent) figure - God himself commands familiar on the beach. They help to become acquainted interesting article, which you propose to read, and exchanged views on it. Invaluable assistance can have a crossword puzzle, in fact almost all women love to solve. Women appreciate intelligence - ability to show it! Card games, ice cream treats or soft drinks. On the sand easy to play "tic-tac-toe." Any game - is a convenient way to explore. The game reveals a person as a person.
Option 9 (restaurant, cafe, anniversary ...)
Given the state of light intoxication among the visitors to such places and events, is not recommended for long ignore you like a woman. Otherwise, take her to remain without fear cavalier and excitement, involving women in such cases, another man can steal it from you from under his nose. "Brute" - the best way to heart of women in such places! Do not give her time to recover, invite to dance and express my admiration for her appearance, movements, etc. After the dance she did not offer to sit down and dance once again, stand with her in front of everybody with a satisfied air. This immediately demoralize your opponents. Be demonstrative gallantry. Flowery speech acts on its relaxed alcohol awareness of the strongest manner. Invite her (with a girlfriend) at her desk, order her champagne. Very well, if you potantsuete with her girlfriend, who can tell you about it a lot of interesting, and about myself too. With less profitable one, it is always profitable to tell the other. If at least one of her friends got carried away by you or your friend, then the evening would have been continued.
Option 10
This is when a woman just bought for money. This option is for us the most uninteresting, so will confine ourselves to the next story.
Morning. A man comes to the mirror. Views: mug blue, his hair on end, prune belly, ears, burdock, one leg shorter than the other. Looks - behind his back in bed asleep leggy beauty. The man said reflectively:
- It's necessary because the money to love ...
Indian family
Indian families are numerous. They often consist of parents, their married sons with their wives and their children, unmarried sons and unmarried daughters. Sometimes the result is that the house was home to around sixty people. After the wedding, the daughter goes into full power-law, and if a girl marries a young son in the family, it is subject to government and senior wives.
Sons give to their parents all their earnings, and the woman disposes of what and how to spend money. If the mother in law is not too pampered daughter new clothes and gifts, then the latter must be content with what had brought from home or received as a wedding gift. Sometimes it may be that the mother in law does not consider it necessary to bring a daughter to talk discuss the family budget, as well as to the issues of upbringing and education of children or other problems. In this case, the daughter can live in the house as a free servant: wiping, washing dishes, and be completely deprived of the right to vote.
But such heavy family relations exception to the rule. Patient, gentle, hardworking daughter, very quickly fit into the family circle, especially those who managed to give birth to a son. Below are those who give birth to girls. But since the Indian family decided to have many children, over the years come and boys, and then the woman-mother takes in her husband's family rather strong position.
Children in families grow in a friendly atmosphere. The first words that they hear children are words that teach them kindness towards all living beings. "Do not hit the dog, goat, do not crush an ant, do not hurt the lizard. "Over time, these words take a different form:" Respect your elders, do not hurt the younger and weaker, do not lift indiscreet glance at her, be kind to children. "
For the Indian family is naturally - there are never seen in the family's defiance, coquetry. She is very firmly closes the circle of his inner world about her husband that she cease to exist all the other men.
Tourists who are not too deeply know India and its traditions, wonder why the women here, of influence. But Indian women love to dress beautifully, but only for my husband. Monitor themselves, wear jewelry, but only for my husband. They sing and dance, but only for my husband. And if their husband is alive and well, if a man devoted to family and children, and this is the rule rather than the exception - if a woman is happy and wants nothing more.
Indian Wedding
Wedding ceremonies in India are the same as a thousand years ago. In India, marriage is totally dependent on what the solutions adopted parents of the groom. They are seeking a suitable bride for his son and then come to the talks on the future of marriage with her parents. In this situation, little depends on the girl: her parents can simply order to marry, even for a man whom she hardly knows. And she must obey.
In West Bengal, after preliminary talks, organized two meetings of the young. The first meeting takes place in the bride's home, the second place in the groom's house. Young people at these meetings, receive gifts from parents and relatives, and give gifts to each other.
On the wedding day the young can not eat anything before the wedding ceremony itself. In the house of the groom before the ceremony the girls from the number of female relatives sing songs and dance. After this occurs a small but important ritual called "holud Gaye" - praising the yellow color because this color is associated with the Indians with the color of the sun and a symbol of fidelity.
At the wedding usually gather to eight guests. Parents of the bride must ensure that all guests refreshments and shelter. Samu bride dressed in a bright red sari, hands wear bright red bracelets, which symbolize that the girl is getting married. She will wear them somewhere else a month after the wedding.
Samu weddings usually play at night in the bride's home, where the appointed time arrives the groom, accompanied by relatives and friends.
In wealthy families, Indian weddings are very expensive.
At night the young man put to bed in a separate room, while his wife is sleeping in her girlish bedroom. In the morning the young wife is taken into the house of her husband. Now it will cause the first visit to her parents' home just a month later.
Secrets of beauties in India
India - a country with a long history, full of riddles and mysteries. The people of this country are known as experts in the human body and its relationship with the outside world, and Indian girls shine with beauty. Their skin is always soft and pure, and all this despite the scorching sun and heat.
Particular attention is paid Indian women cleanse the skin. Due to hot climate oily, prone to rapid contamination of the skin is not uncommon.
Lemon - the most effective means of care lies with this skin type. Try to make a mask of lemon juice with curd. Mix a tablespoon of juice and a tablespoon of cottage cheese, apply on your face, after a while rinse with warm water.
Narrow your enlarged pores and clean them also help to egg white. It is applied to the skin for 15 minutes, then wash off with warm water to which lemon juice is added.
See gallery "The most beautiful girls in India"
If you have dry skin, you will tender petals of roses and marigolds. Pour into the pan 100 ml of milk whey and add 50g of petals, boil for 30 minutes on a small window. After this, cool broth and let it brew for several hours. Results apply as a mask.
Masks from different fruits and vegetables are also popular among the Indians. In warmer climates, fruit trees and vegetables grow in abundance all year round and do not require chemical fertilizers in cultivation. This allows the people of India use the products themselves directly in pure form, without adding harmful preservatives. Such a mask and give the desired effect.
Here are two simple recipes masks that you can easily do yourself:
- Tomatoes, cucumbers and pumpkins chop and stir, then apply on your face and rinse with warm water
- Just chop plums or apricots, leave on skin for 10 minutes, wash
We have already described how the protein can be used to cleanse the skin - the rest, egg yolk, also suitable. Add the honey. Hold the skin for 20 minutes and rinse off with cool water.
To skin was smooth and tender, Indian beauty taking baths with the addition of simple, but at the same time very effective ingredients. For example, vegetable oil, honey, dry or normal milk. Distributed by the use of essential oils such as lavender or pine - you can choose any other, depending on the desired outcome and type of your skin.
Indian family
Indian families are numerous. They often consist of parents, their married sons with their wives and their children, unmarried sons and unmarried daughters. Sometimes the result is that the house was home to around sixty people. After the wedding, the daughter goes into full power-law, and if a girl marries a young son in the family, it is subject to government and senior wives.
Sons give to their parents all their earnings, and the woman disposes of what and how to spend money. If the mother in law is not too pampered daughter new clothes and gifts, then the latter must be content with what had brought from home or received as a wedding gift. Sometimes it may be that the mother in law does not consider it necessary to bring a daughter to talk discuss the family budget, as well as to the issues of upbringing and education of children or other problems. In this case, the daughter can live in the house as a free servant: wiping, washing dishes, and be completely deprived of the right to vote.
But such heavy family relations exception to the rule. Patient, gentle, hardworking daughter, very quickly fit into the family circle, especially those who managed to give birth to a son. Below are those who give birth to girls. But since the Indian family decided to have many children, over the years come and boys, and then the woman-mother takes in her husband's family rather strong position.
Children in families grow in a friendly atmosphere. The first words that they hear children are words that teach them kindness towards all living beings. "Do not hit the dog, goat, do not crush an ant, do not hurt the lizard. "Over time, these words take a different form:" Respect your elders, do not hurt the younger and weaker, do not lift indiscreet glance at her, be kind to children. "
For the Indian family is naturally - there are never seen in the family's defiance, coquetry. She is very firmly closes the circle of his inner world about her husband that she cease to exist all the other men.
Tourists who are not too deeply know India and its traditions, wonder why the women here, of influence. But Indian women love to dress beautifully, but only for my husband. Monitor themselves, wear jewelry, but only for my husband. They sing and dance, but only for my husband. And if their husband is alive and well, if a man devoted to family and children, and this is the rule rather than the exception - if a woman is happy and wants nothing more.
Ways for improve the quality of communication
Ways for improve the quality of communicationIn life there are often situations where you have to communicate with people that you are not interested, or even worse - annoying you. This may be the chief at work, or the dean of the institute, an ensign in the army or just a neighbor with a trash can.
Surely you were cases when you are familiar with the man and burn a couple of phrases such as "Hello. - Hello. - Classroom weather. - Yeah, and go further, not knowing what else, besides the weather, talk to the remaining seven bus stops. In order not to lose the remaining time wasted, pointless looking out the window, try to develop your communication skills. Practice.
Experienced psychologists have developed several techniques that will help you develop the habit of communicating with people, regardless of who they are. Follow the techniques below, you are easily able to win the interlocutor and keep the conversation on any subject, whether breeding rabbits or engineering problem in third world countries.
And if I know nothing about rabbits? - You will ask. No problem. The fact that out of all that they talk to, we hear only about twenty percent, and remember even less - only seven per cent. The remaining information about the interlocutor - a tone of voice, emotion, posture, pace of conversation and similar non-verbal factors. It is on them and be guided in the conversation. Let's get started:
1. Podstroysya a pose.
Adjustment under the posture allows the show to the other party that you have with him is something in common, so it will be comfortable with you and the conversation goes easier. By the way, notice that when communicating with friends and relatives just your posture and general gestures often coincide. This happens unconsciously, simply because you are interested in each other. The same interest can be achieved and intentional mirroring poses interlocutor.
2. Verbal or verbal adjustment.
In the adjustment of this type, there are several pravil.Vo First, do not argue over trifles, try to avoid in the conversation the words "no," but "," disagree "," you're wrong ", etc. Learn to accept and respect the views sobesednika.Vo Second, use words-parasites interlocutor. For example, if a person instead of the word "money" says "loot" - use the same word. This again will create the necessary level of confidence in you.
3. Mikropodstroyki.
Learn to pick up the tiniest gestures rights, such as blinking, the movement of pupils, the characteristics of voice and try to copy them. Note that although the catch and repeat micromotions another person is difficult enough, the success copying gives a stunning effect. The fact is that in most cases we do not control yourself (I think, you are unlikely to ponder over when you blink =)), and acting unconsciously. Repetition of such micromotions not noticeable brain, but captured the subconscious of another person and creates the necessary level of comfort to us.
4. Adjustment under his breath.
This adjustment - a kind mikropodstroek, and limited to what you need to breathe at the same rate, in which breathing is your companion. Breathing is difficult to grasp, so remember - a man says you exhale, seize this moment and breathe with him.
General comments on the adjustment.
For beginners adjustment is given is difficult because of some peculiarities. Remember, you must adapt, rather than mimic, to create a comfortable environment, but not stupid to copy all the motions. It is not necessary to repeat every detail, capture the main thing. At first it is rather difficult, but with practice you get the hang of finding a common language with absolutely anyone.
5. Be honest with a man.
Falsity felt people (especially girls) are very good. Remember how you congratulated the teacher on the first сентября flowers that you lectured the parents "because we need!". Not pleasant to you or her. Learn sincerely interested in the man. How? In absolutely every person can find something enjoyable or, at least, interesting. Whether it's breast size or the ability to make origami cranes. Now mind extend to the whole man, it is perhaps the only positive quality, smile and say something good. Sincerely interested in the problem of people who sincerely try to help, and you will have another loyal friend.
6. Bring to automaticity.
Work on yourself, train communication with people, bringing this skill to automatic - and you will be welcome at any party. At first, it is difficult, so do not parsya, if something does not work. Test-and, eventually, you will communicate with the person, not even thinking about what you're doing, how and why. All will be obtained by itself.
The above list - an incomplete list of tools that will help you build effective communication with man. Remember that the ability to properly build communication - one of the most important skills a seducer of women. Having learned to have a companion, you will be much easier to drag a woman into bed and, if necessary - to avoid squabbles with her husband, =), so use the above techniques, practice. When dealing with people, you surely will find some new ways that will be useful in the future. Do not be afraid to practice and try, before you expect to see dramatic result
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